I found out
yesterday that the draw for the all important ‘Extra Preliminary Round’ of the
FA Cup 2016-17 will take place on Friday July the 8th. This will
determine at what ground the journey will begin. The tie that is staged nearest
to the Scottish border is where I will be heading to see the FA Cup tie on
Saturday the 6th August. Teams that are in the frame to be the first
destination are Alnwick Town , Morpeth
Town , Penrith and
Ashington. I am already agog with anticipation.
After my
initial introduction to the ‘Romance of the Cup’ in September 1966 at South
Bank I remained fascinated by the competition but as a wee boy I was at my
Dad’s mercy as to what ties I could see. We had moved from Newcastle
to Redcar in 1965 and the whole family were
Newcastle United supporters – except me. Everyone at my new school supported Middlesbrough and as a young incomer I did not want to be
the odd one out so I became a Boro fan. I
believe the next FA Cup tie I saw was the second round match between Middlesbrough
and York City
at Ayresome Park in November 1966. Interestingly
neither South Bank’s Normanby Road
ground nor Middlesbrough’s ex-home Ayresome
Park no longer exist.
Being a nostalgic sort of guy I think this is a real shame – especially in the
case of Ayresome Park a ground with an incredible
atmosphere and great tradition. Times move on and Middlesbrough
have played at the well-appointed Riverside Stadium since 1995. Their new
ground is about a mile and a half from South Bank.
Other
memories of the FA Cup from about this time include seeing the exploits of Tow Law
Town reported on local
TV. In season 67-68 they reached the second round of the FA Cup and before
losing to Shrewsbury
Town they had battled
through 4 qualifying rounds and one round of the competition proper. I recall
being so disappointed when they got knocked out (even though I barely knew
where Tow Law was) as I cherished the hope that the 1968 Cup Final would be
Middlesbrough v Tow
Law Town .
The family
moved again in December 1970 and this time we moved to Scotland . In
the last full season before we moved Middlesbrough
had a great cup run that captured the imagination of not just me but everybody
living in the Teesside area. In round three, in January 1970, the Boro beat
West Ham United. The West Ham team included Bobby Moore, Martin Peters and
Geoff Hurst from the England World Cup winning team. With the 1970 Mexico World
Cup still to take place England
were still world champions. The Hammers also had Billy Bonds, Frank Lampard
Senior and Harry Redknap playing. The superstars were no match for the likes of
John Hickton, Hugh McIlmoyle and Derrick Downing. I was in awe as the Boro won
2-1 with over 32,000 fans, including me, packed in to Ayresome Park .
The place was rocking and I was in seventh heaven. Also in the Boro line up
that day was goalkeeper Willie Whigham who was renowned as being the ugliest
player of his generation. My Dad used to tell me he intended to get a framed
picture of the legendary custodian and place it on the mantelpiece to keep my
younger brother Martin away from the fire. In round 4 the Boro were drawn at
home to York City and won comfortably and I was
there. In round 5 the Boro were drawn at home again – this time Carlisle United
visited and again I was there. Then the draw for the quarter finals and Middlesbrough were given a home tie against Manchester
United. It was eighteen months earlier that Man United had famously won the
European Cup and their 1970 team included Brian Kidd, Bobby Charlton and of
course George Best. The draw was made on a Monday lunchtime and a group of
school pals had gathered round a pocket radio to hear the incredible news. I
could not wait to get home to talk to my Dad about it. Later that evening my
Dad gave the 12 year old Chris Donkin some unexpected news. He told me I could
not go – it would be too busy and too dangerous. I was devastated. Football is
quite ridiculous. Since that evening some 56 years ago, like all people in
their fifties, I have experienced sad losses, seen tragic family events unfold
and experienced personal and professional disappointments …. but rarely (if
ever) have I felt as devastated as I did that evening. The Boro from Division
Two held the mighty Man United to record a creditable draw. Man United won the
replay and 10 months later the Donkin family moved to Penicuik Midlothian and
for a while my flirtation with the romance of the FA Cup was over.
It's not football that's ridiculous - just the hopes and dreams of 12-year-olds before life makes us hard and cynical. When I was the same age all my friends went on a school cruise to Egypt - £100 a head. It might as well have been a million quid as far as my mum and dad were concerned - we had no money to spare. I still remember the devastated tears I cried 41 years ago when they said I couldn't go!
ReplyDeleteI feel your pain Yvonne. I guess when I wrote 'football is ridiculous' it is almost an admission that even now as a man of advancing years football still make me feel completely distraught when my team (Hearts) lose a big match or utterly elated when they win. My mood on a Saturday evening in the season is usually dictated by the Hearts result ... but as Alex Ferguson once famously said "football eh ? - bloody hell!"
ReplyDelete"Some people think football is a matter of life and death. I don't like that attitude. I can assure them it is much more serious than that."
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ReplyDeleteOops - accidentally put the same comment twice :-) Still getting the hang of this blogging lark ;-)
ReplyDeleteAlex Ferguson and Bill Shankly ... two legends who both knew the road to Wembley from Scotland !
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